You ever try it? I mean really try it. Just smile. No witty comments, compliments. Just be there and smile. Not the pasted on i’m in a beauty contest and have to smile because its my job kind, but the my kids so cute i cant help but smile kind. Do this with people that aren’t your kids. No matter what happens. Watch them naturally warm to you. It’s weird. For me it hard because I like to try and sound so insightful it can make you roll your eyes and ask “is he done yet?”. So take your smile with you and smile. No sneering or grinning… just smile.